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The smaller the Base ring the more Secure the Chastity Device

man in wrong size chastity device

So many males believe if they use the smallest base ring that they can fit into the more secure their male chastity device will be.

In fact if the base ring is too tight, the  base ring will become uncomfortable when there is any natural fluctuation of the tentacles and the blood flow around this area. Some wearers believe if they keep this area lubricated to help relieve the pain this is not correct. The fact is this simply if you have the correct size base ring you will never have pain in this area from your Base Ring Device. Unless the base rings designs that has inherited pinch points due to the hinge or how the cage is attached to the base ring – pain may be felt at these points. We have specifically design Custom Chastity base rings has no pinch points. Below is how you measure to get the correct base ring

There is two way to measure what size would best fit you.

  1. Purchase the cock rings set from us – we give you a credit for the purchase of your next purchase from Custom Chastity.
  2. Go to a hardware store and by some rings in a variety of sizes.

Start with a 50mm – 2” ring If you can just fit one finger up to the first joint between the ring and the top of your penis then this is most properly the correct size and wear it for a few. If you can get more than one finger, up to the first joint between the ring and the top of your penis, it is too large then change to the next size down. If your ball escapes with just normal activity then the ring is too large. If you can’t get a finger in, it is too small and changes to the next size up. If you are unsure how to fit a base ring watch this video below

How to put Custom Chastity Base Ring On

Many men report that after wearing a device for several months that they need to reduce the base ring size. This is because your scrotum shrinks a bit as a result of wearing the device. It is important not to start just because this may happen to you and you want to save money. The small amount of shinkage may not happen and you will have a too small base ring that will just cause you pain and maybe damage.

AT NO TIME SHOULD YOU BE IN PAIN OR MAJOR DISCOMFORT. Don’t keep trying to wear smaller and smaller rings. This is why custom chastity sells interchangeable cages and base ring and a starter kit system. So if you are one of the guys that after 6 to 12mths have to down size their base ring they can without having to purchase a whole new cage. REMEMBER just get the size that is right for you now your balls and penis is too valuable to be frugal. The main point is that you and your male chastity device fit comfortably .

 

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Is your dick only worth $20 – cheap male chastity devices

counterfiet male chastity devices

In China copyright – (is tongue in cheek) to mean – “the right to copy anyone products”. They have no regards to someone’s creative and income rights. As these companies are our competitors we have looked at these cheep male chastity devices and have some personal experience ordering from these Chinese website and business that operate on Ebay and Amazon. We decided to see their quality, test the products and their customer service. This is our view on counterfeit male chastity devices.

Quality

There is a general perception that Chinese products are not well made and they have this reputation for a reason. They are low quality. The metal is 99.9% an alloyed and chrome finished and if it is steel it is not good quality stainless steel. Put simple as the saying goes you get what you pay for. I have another business that export to china. My Chinese customer said “Chinese middle and upper class are not interested in their own manufactured products as they a see as cheap and below standards”

Delivery Time

Delivery time for these male chastity devices ranges from 15 to 60 days, depending on your location and the efficiency of the delivery services.

Warranties and Refunds

Most original product manufactures will cover manufacturing defects. Due to the nature of the product there is no warranties when there is excessive or abusive wear conditions or intentional breakage. Unfortunately the cheap sites work on the assumption that you are not going to chase your $20. If you are lucky to get the site to reply when the package does not turn up or the sizing is incorrect compare to their site, we found that it took several months to finalize the return and refund.

Fitting and Sizes of Counterfeit  Male Chastity Devices

The sizing is very limited to the so call “average male” – not quite sure which average male but going on our sales history these products are more on the below average size. Many buyers on different forums have commented on that they have to do modifications including adding tubing to stop pinching and rubbing plus that the plastic devices break easily. Plus many males have sustained cuts, bruises and cause themselves pain when these products have broken while being worn.

Styles

You will find on many Chinese and cheap sites have exact copycats of well know male chastity brands like CB-3000, CB-6000, CB-6000S, Bird Lock, Holy Trainer, The Curve, Bon4 and others. They may look the same but are not. “CB-X and their authorize distributors have similar note on their site. “Yes, the Chinese have counterfeited our product line. We do not warranty the counterfeit products as they are inferior and are known to fail.” Many other Original Manufactures have similar notes.

Why Originals cost More.

In USA, European and other western countries we have to pay reasonable wages, high rent, insurances and taxes to run our business plus abide by many laws and regulations that add to the cost of products and services they sell. Also there are many hours in research and development of each device. Many illegal counterfeits products are manufactured, distributed without adhering to laws that are designed to protect you as the consumers.

Your on a budget and cannot afford to pay more.

Everyone’s financial situation is personal and I have been extremely poor in my life (several times) and have had to make hard chooses to keep food on the table and roof above my families head. It is in these hard times, little guilty pleasure is what keeps you going but at what cost. The one thing I know if it something truly important to you, you will find a way to purchase it, even if it is waiting for it a little longer. Also how are you going to feel if you spend you’re hard earn money and it breaks on first time you use it. You are now $20 further from the real thing.

Morals

You’ll need to examine your own moral code of ethic to decide how much you respect the people that have taken many hours and $$$ to design your device and are there to back up their creations. Our designs have take years of work and testing before we release them for purchase. All our custom designs orders can take anywhere from 10hours to 100’s hours. Put it simple my staff and me do not work for $0.20 an hour. It simply hurts me, my staff and family plus many other businesses when you buy counterfeits. So if you think your dick is only worth $20 and have no respect for the true creators their ability to continue their business and providing products and services at a reasonable rate then that’s is your choose. Remember a fake orgasm is never as good as the real thing. Don’t cheat yourself of the pleasure of the perfect fitting male chastity devices that enables you to be in comfort and prolong chastity.

Please don’t leave a comment if your going to say you love your cheap Chinese rip-off – not interested. But if you have been on the dark side and released the benefits of buying from the true creators I’d love it, if you left a comment here to share how the experience was.

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The hunt for the perfect long term male chastity device!

holding hands after sex

Following on from the previous story of how I started my journey in the lifestyle of male chastity. So to remain in long term chastity my current device the metal Fort with the nasty hinge in the base ring and a padlock that would rattle constantly when I was on the move plus occasionally the metal Fort bite was difficult to live with to say the least.The metal Fort was design for play and not long term wear. Not long after starting this journey I started a work contract that involved regular flying so I purchased a CB6000. Wow this was the most uncomfortable device I ever tried but I thought it would allow me to travel and not worry about detection or frisking. I wore it once on a flight and was trapped in this uncomfortable thing for four hours. As soon as I got to my motel room I switched back to the Fort. This light plastic tube was trying to spin upside down with me in it. Not a device for long term wear or for temporary device for on flights again just a play device. After that big failure of the CB6000 I decided to remove my metal device before I went through airport security and as soon as I arrived at my destination I would head to the restroom and slip the device back on . I did tried to wear this metal Fort while on the plane, even though it was not as bad as the CB6000 the very narrow economy seats just did not give a lot of ballroom for comfortable travel. The hunt for better fitting device was on.

I decided to upgrade to a Lori after reading many forums and having realized that my life has become much better since the locking of my favorite toy. This was the start of my inspiration for starting Custom Chastity. My marathon experience to obtain what was perceived at the time to be the ultimate device started from my initial order of an existing device that was in stock. I had settled for this option as the device a 2B had a very long waiting period. The stock item was a 12D that had the exact measurements I thought I required at the time. Having already had a P.A piercing for more than fifteen years this seemed to be the answer to be in permanent inescapable chastity. More than a month later and a few anxious emails it finally arrived. I immediately fitted it and screwed in the locking PA pin. As the day went on it appeared I had found the perfect fit. That night was a little different with the onset of the mandatory hard on, the drama began. I woke up with balls the size of goose eggs and the head of my penis was turning blue as well. The battle to see who was in charge, had been entered into at my expense the meat or two veg? While that fight raged on, I was freaking out trying to relieve the pressure. The lesson here was, the base ring can be to small and therefore it went back to be modified.

Two months later the Lori was returned with an up-sized base ring and a small increase in diameter to the penis ring. I wore the new 12D for an hour and half and had to remove it as it started to tear my piercing and also made me have a need to urinate nearly every 15 minutes. Luckily I had already ordered a Lori 2B about a month after the initial drama with the 12D, being a more conventional style it still had a ridiculous waiting list.

In the meantime I purchased a Mature Metal Queens Keep, which had the oval base ring (long side horizontal). This was okay as an fill in while I waited for my Lori 2B order. I this time I ordered an extra base ring with Mature Metal Queens Keep so as to prevent any waiting in case I got the fit wrong with the initial order. A month later the device arrived and was immediately fitted and locked in place. The locking screw was a fiddly thing to fit and the ovalisation I felt was wrong as the round rings I had worn in the past proved far more comfortable. The device kept trying to rotate 90 degrees and this caused it to pinch the skin between the base ring and tube near the joint. I persisted wearing the device for four months until my Lori 2B arrived five months after the initial order was placed.

My Lori 2B had a 4 gauge PA pin which I felt I should be able to use since my piercing was now ok after the trauma five months earlier. Well I was wrong, but this piercing issue was more to do with the fact that my penis had become used to a confined space. My penis would pull back on the pin until eventually began to tear. I again gave up on the piercing idea for security in chastity. I wore this device without the piercing pin for a month and a half before I decided there must be something far more comfortable to wear and plus the large lump on the underside of the tube to allow for the piercing pin to be locked into position was quite uncomfortable and now that it was not used was just an uncomfortable lump .

Steelworxx to the rescue! I place my order and one month later I emailed too see what was going on with the order and two weeks after the email the Locker #01 arrived. This device gave me the chance to try a urethral tube as security. I can not believe I thought this was going to work for long term. But as I found out, I’m no different to every other human on this earth and that urethral tube was not going to work in the long term. But I am a determined bugger and sometimes think I’m somehow going to beat the tube and have found the ultimate security system. I wore the Locker #01 with the urethral tube for a couple of days and removed it after a severe burning pain and was regularly feeling the tube moving when bending over and seemed to stick to the urethra. So I unscrewed the tube from the device and wore it continuously as a regular cage until Christmas 2014.

I wanted to stay in chastity at any cost, by this stage my life with my wife was so good that all the positive of being chastity outweighed any of the discomforts caused by this device. What was wrong with the Locker #01 device now. Well nothing I could really complain about considering all my previous trials and horrors. But it did have issues, I had begun wearing a jockstrap for support of these heavy metal devices. This I didn’t mind as I love the weight of metal but not the feeling you get when it is hanging low on the testicles and I realize that some of the pain you may occasionally feel is just a reminder me of my commitment. But I was determined that I could remain in chastity in comfort. I still want to have a better fitting and designed system that not only felt good but also looked good.

For over 2 years I had be wanting to design a device that was for long term male chastity wear and removed all the problems that I had encounter.  The birth of Custom Chastity happen in 2013.  The first three male chastity devices FMJ, Ghost and Leopard is more about comfort, discrete and for long term wear than ultimate security. The 300 series is light weight and you will never have to be out of your device now when you travel. Always be undetected from airport security.  I am working on a few ideas in the pipeline for a device that if you pull out you can’t get back in without the key. So this is not only going to leave you with your device in a very uncomfortable position but probably is going to be tough to explain to your Key holder. As for the lack of piercing lock or urethral tube, I had come to the reality that they don’t work for most in long term chastity as they both will probably give you serious issues in the longterm. If you want to cheat a system, a life style, yourself and your key-holder, you are going to cheat. You just playing at being Houdini not chastity. So cheat if you must but you’ll be caught.

I wanted to provide the opportunity for all males to experience comfort, discrete and long term wear. I wanted others to be able design a male chastity that suited their needs. All Custom Chastity standard designs can custom sized plus if you have you own design we can make it for you too. Welcome to custom chastity answer to your male chastity needs.

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The Fox Journey into Male Chastity!

Custom Chastity - male chastity Sensual Couple

My first interested in male chastity as in the form of play, but I liked the idea so much that I barely got the device on before it caused me to orgasm and I lost interest. That was fifteen years ago but I still had the device stored away tormenting me. Just under 4 years ago I decided to try male chastity again as I had read a little more about orgasm denial and chastity life style. I thought perhaps it will make me happy to be locked up for a day or so. Also now I was married and had a wife that liked sex and may not see anything in this idea for her.

I suppose the next issue that was going through my head was that my marriage was not in great shape and could perhaps somehow improve my status by giving control of my orgasms. My wife at this time regarded me as completely untrustworthy because of my past behavior and history. This was making my life and my wife miserable so I managed to conjure up the courage one morning when it was becoming all to much and something had to change. I proceeded to let my wife know what I had in mind to put her at ease. She agreed with me regarding our relationship but as for male chastity I could tell she wasn’t convinced. Eventually she agreed to give it a try as we had to do something before our marriage just went down that slippery slope towards divorce.

The start of our male chastity lifestyle

Once she agreed to the idea the next step was to draw up the mandatory ‘chastity contract’ (which basically outlined the consequences for any unauthorized release from the device or release in the form of orgasm). I was very cautious, worried and excited with this contract as to when I was to get my next orgasm and weather I was going to get any release at all. As well as ensuring that I would pay dearly for any further infidelity we had also factored in a monthly milking (for prostate reasons only). The milk has never was enacted due to many lifestyle and personal reasons but after the first month I realized that I wanted to be wearing a male chastity device for a long time.

After about 10 days into the first period things in our life started to change for the better. According to my wife I apparently had become a better person to be around and I felt better too. My wife actually told me of my better company several months into chastity (she held back telling me because she was waiting to see if it was a long term change or just a fleeting high). Over the first couple of months I became better at coping with the night time erections that would always wake me and due to the poorly fitting device at the time. I was determined to make this work as I started to feel the benefits of being in chastity plus my wife seem to be a noticeably happier person. I was again enjoying being with the person I had originally fallen in love with. I had not actually realized that she was reaping the benefits of my new orgasm denial situation and she needed no further persuasion from me to continue me to remain locked up for a very long time.

Now started the hunt for the perfect long term male chastity device was on.

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How did Lady Fox get caught up in Male Chastity?

Lady Fox with The Fox

My husband and I were a “normal” married couple. We love each other but there was the normal killers – kids, work etc etc – others.

My husband came home and asked if he could be put into full time chastity. He had played with chastity devices before and it did nothing for me? The whole idea did not excite me at all. What was in it for me.

No sex for me???? but at least I know he was not cheating on me!!!

I was tired and just thought this was just another out there idea from my husband. – What ever!

Little did I know this was going to be the best journey ever to happen for me and my husband.

I would class myself as Vanilla in the world of sexual fetish. Some sex in public places, some little soft bondage but nothing to write to playboy about. Lets face it I have not even had a one night stand. EVER. So being thrown into chastity and orgasm denial for him only. (I did like that idea) it was a steep learning curve.

Thanks to a very patient husband he kept sending me information on the subject of Male Chastity and many articles on having a contract between the two parties. O MY GOD the contract we develop and sign was so pointed and littered with our insecurities and fears but that is exactly where we were at the time. If I was to write the contract today it would be so different.

Chastity Contract between THE FOX and LADY FOX –

THE FOX IS LOCK UNLESS LADY FOX SAID DIFFERENTLY

Signed by  Lady Fox and  The Fox

 

Simple and to the point but there was no way I would have signed the above at the beginning. I had so many questions and want to protect myself and my children from another crazy idea my husband had. I promise that one day I will go into detail about having a contract and our contract but in this blog I want to talk general about my wonderful journey into becoming a key holder.

After the initial shock, then came the benefits and growth. The first benefit was waking up in the morning without the dread poke in the back by his morning glory. I was waking up to cuddles and a cup of tea and a happy husband. The next benefit was that we started to flirt again. Sexual banter and sexual tension was building. The amazing next benefit was the undivided attention and

Amazing Orgasm.

His attention to detail and ultimate need to ensure that I was full satisfied was fantastic.  Not that that I ever complained on what I had before but it is SO MUCH BETTER NOW.

As I become more comfortable blogging I will continue to tell you our story from a Key-holders perspective and answer any questions that you may have in your male chastity play and lifestyle.

Till Next Time

Cheers

The Lady Fox.